Wedding Preparation & Management

Salam Satu Malaysia!

Hey korang! Aku lagih sibuk nih.

Kok banyak keperluan mahu dilunaskan sih..*lagak bibik*

Hahaha. Alhamdulillah. Minggu ni dah sampai kat penghujung. Syukur2.

Tak sabar nak weekend sebab i'm really tired this whole week.

Hopely dapat rehat sepuasnyer. Qada' tido. kihkihkih.

Insyaallah, malam ni bakal menjadi satu tarikh penting buat abang ipar aku.

Alhamdulillah. Syukur.

Along akan di ijabkabulkan dengan pilihan hatinya, Kak Farah.

Really happy for both of you.

Tiada lagi alunan lagu 'carik jodoh'  kumpulan wali band tuh, hahahaha.

Bile cite pasal wedding, aku memang eksaited lebih.

Yelah, sape yang tak suke wedding? kan? *bulat bijik mate*

Ade delicious food, crowded, lot of laugh, happiness, colours, joys and more.

Sumenyer hepi2 belaka.

majlis akad nikah my lovely sista, kak long

Tak kire la preparation penat cam menggile, but when the day comes, see the people are smiling and enjoying your wedding is a blast. Really. Subhanallah.

I like the wedding moment, every single thing about wedding.

A question like "how crazee & choas your wedding preparation?"

For me, preparation kami tak la teruk mane. We plan it well.

We have a plenty of time towards the day. So, we able to manage it well.

Our preparation is a year before the event. Mesti korang cam, wah! giler eksaited!

Hahaha. Tak la eksaited mane pun since kitorg sedar yang we need to manage both wedding and financial.

wedding kak siti in early may

So, the wedding plan, the description, the details sume dah di draft awal.

The theme, concept, venue, date, invitation sume we list early. Really.

Barangan hantaran dibeli each a month. hahaha. Gile sengkek kan?

Tapi memang betul pun. Tu yang kitorg buat. Selain kene tunggu pay day, haha.

It's not really about how kedekut  you are, but it's all about how you manage your plan well.

Kitorg jugak berjaye plan things after the wedding (^^)

such as honeymoon, rumah mane nak duduk, sharing the vehicle dan memacam lagik.

Alhamdulillah, everything gone smooth as we plan.

Korang jangan tak pecaye yang aku siap ade buku khas  untuk jot down every details of our wedding preparation. Segale perbelanjaan, meetings and discussion sume ditulis.

Sebab aku mudah lupe dan lagi satu aku tak nak kene tipu dengan vendors.

Biaselah, orang bisnes ni kengkadang buat2 lupe!

wedding my close friend, azlina. Love the color combination!

Mungkin nampak macam nonsense siap ade buku, pastu siap simpan resit bagai but alhamdulillah towards the wedding takde misi yang unsolve.

Sume dah dilaksanakan dengan jayanyer. =)

Dan wedding yang sepatutnyer as simple as we can afford menjadi bualan dan pujian. Uish!

Actually, being your own wedding planner isn't as difficult as you think it is.

As long as we know what we want and stick with it pun dah cukup.

Sebab kalo pilihan asik berubah je, susahnyer nak decide and finalise the details.

Lagi satu, kedua pihak bride & groom perlulah support each other.

Not entirely financial support but korang shud share the opinion and most being part of the preparation.

Jangan plak lepas tangan soh famili buat sume, dah tu keje komplen je.

It's your wedding, be part of it!

I promise, korang akan lebih berpuas hati.

Selain tu, both parties mestilah bertolak ansur.

There are some cases, pihak lelaki tak mampu nak bagi wang hantaran sebab nilainyer terlalu tinggi.

Oh gosh, kalo reasonnyer kerana si 'perempuan' ade diploma kene bagi harge tinggi,

but in the same time menyusahkan pihak lelaki. Dah create one big issue kat situ.

Dah tu, kalo demand tu dilengkapi pakej pandai masak, servis baik takpe. hahaha.

Korang pikir la sendiri ye.

Menjelang hari bahagia memang banyak cabaran dan dugaan.

Sangat banyak. Mase ni la korang nak bergaduh besar ngan pasangan, ngan family, ngan vendor, rase tak puas hati, rase tak yakin dan macam2 lagi.

Bertenang. Ni memang ujian untuk korang. Dan aku rase sume bakal2 pengantin akan lalui.

Sama ada korang berjaye lalui atau tak. Tu je. So, be strong!

Last but not least, pade yang muslim.

Bebanyak la solat isytiharah, solat hajat, mohon agar majlis berjalan lancar.

Tiada cacat cela dan niat majlis untuk menghebahkan berita perkahwinan dan menghiburkan hati sume orang, insyaallah, wedding korang akan lebih baik dan sempurna.

Nasihat aku, buatlah majlis atas kemampuan kite.

Kalo buat majlis mengikut keinginan tapi kite tak dapat capai keinginan kite tu, tu yang kite jadik stress.

Ingat, less is more!

husband and i at kak long reception

Love. Izrin